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104 - Why Excellence Is Just a Habit in Disguise

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< The Myth of the Masterpiece: Why Excellence Is Just a Habit in Disguise Watch on YouTube My first attempt at baking sourdough bread was a disaster. I had spent a week meticulously feeding my starter, watching YouTube videos, and reading articles. I had visions of a glorious, rustic loaf with a perfect crust and an airy, open crumb. What I pulled out of the oven was a dense, pale, and stubbornly flat disc. It was, for all intents and purposes, a sourdough brick. My immediate reaction was frustration. I had performed all the acts of a baker, so why wasn't I one? The mistake I made is a trap we all fall into: I believed that excellence was an event, a single performance I could nail if I just tried hard enough. It was only after my fifth, sixth, and tenth loaves—each one a tiny bit better than the last—that I finally understood the wisdom in Aristotle’s famous words: "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." We live in a cult...

103 - Peace With Just a Smile

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The Unarmed Offense: How to Win the War for Peace With Just a Smile Watch on YouTube. I remember the tension in the room. It was thick enough to taste, a bitter mix of frustration and ego. We were in a project meeting that had gone completely off the rails. Deadlines were missed, fingers were being pointed, and the volume was steadily rising. In the middle of it all was our senior manager, a woman named Priya. While everyone else’s faces were tight with anger, she did something utterly disarming. She smiled. It wasn’t a smirk or a sign of dismissal. It was a calm, genuine smile. For a split second, the shouting stopped. The sheer unexpectedness of it broke the furious rhythm. “Okay,” she said softly into the silence, “clearly, we’re all passionate about this. Let’s use that energy to find a solution, not a fight.” That small act didn’t magically solve the problem, but it instantly de-escalated the conflict, shifting the room from a battlefield to a collaborative space. We often t...

102 - The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall

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The Art of the Comeback: A Guide to Rising Stronger After Every Fall Watch on YouTube A few years ago, I was passed over for a promotion I had poured my heart and soul into for over a year. It wasn't just a career setback; it felt like a personal verdict. I had fallen, hard. For a week, I was consumed by feelings of failure and injustice. The temptation to stay down, to become bitter and disengaged, was immense. But then, a choice emerged. I could let this fall define me, or I could use it as fuel. I took a deep breath, swallowed my pride, and asked for honest feedback. The answers were tough to hear, but they were a roadmap. I spent the next six months obsessively learning the skills I was missing. That fall didn't break me; it remade me. It led to a better opportunity at a different company, a role I never would have been qualified for without the lessons from my failure. I didn't find glory in avoiding the fall; I found it in the act of rising. This experience ...