116 - “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not.”
Amara: A portrait of the modern struggle between 'What Is' and 'What If.' Watch on YouTube The Spoilage Paradox: Why Your Ambition is a Ghost Killing Your Happiness Amara stood on her balcony, the city lights reflecting in her eyes like scattered diamonds. She wore a silk blouse that whispered of success, and her home was a masterpiece of modern design. Yet, her heart was heavy. She wasn't looking at the beauty she owned; she was staring at the penthouse across the park—the one with the larger terrace and the blinding blue neon glow. In that moment, her own success felt like a failure. She was "busy making other plans" for a future she didn't yet have, completely ignoring the life happening right now . This is the Spoilage Paradox . It is the psychological sickness where the desire for "more" rots the "plenty" we already possess. Epicurus warned us: “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you h...